In the social media-driven world we live in, negativity is what gets the most attention. So, we’re hit with endless amounts of “red flag” warnings concerning people and behaviors that should be avoided when looking for someone to date or hook up with. Turning the tables a bit on that, a thread on the “Girls of Reddit” sub-reddit encouraged the ladies to list their “green flags” that made them most interested in a guy. Take notes, gentlemen…these could help you out as you maneuver the dating scene.
- “A guy that can laugh at his own mistakes”
- “Someone who’s able to listen rather than waiting for his turn to talk”
- “A guy that doesn’t feel the need to come off as the smartest person in the room”
- “Someone who can talk with you…instead of at you”
- “He has my back and is reliable…consistency and reliability are huge for me”
- “They keep their living space nice, which means all the future housework won’t just be on me”
- “A high sex drive and low neuroticism”
- “Courtesy to wait staff, animals, and old people”
- “He knows how to apologize and is accountable for his actions”
- “A positive relationship with his parents is big”
- “Following through with plans and not being flakey”
- “Not an addict”
- “Isn’t a momma’s boy”
There you go, guys. It’s all laid out for you…now you just have to do some of that. It might also help if you meant it.
Source: Girls Of Reddit
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