The holidays are a make-it-or-break-it time for relationships; if you find yourself struggling during the next couple months, maybe take a few of these tips from The List that are personalized for you based on your zodiac sign:
- Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius): fire signs are a lot of things, and one of the great things about you guys is your passion, innovation, and spontaneity. However, there are some times where these can be a detriment to your relationships.
- Aries can sometimes be a little TOO spontaneous and make decisions without their partner. These issues can start small, but can be harmful to your relationship if changes aren’t made. Your partner LOVES how free and spontaneous you are – just make sure you share your thoughts and ideas with them so they feel like your equal.
- Leos, we all know you love the love and attention from your partner, but make sure you’re giving them the same amount of care that you receive. Spend quality time with them to learn about their love language and make them feel loved, too.
- Sagittarius people, your strengths include being open-minded and adaptable. However, sometimes this can lead to a fear of commitment. Think about what you really need (and want) from your relationship and make sure to communicate those needs so you feel the most comfortable with your partner.
- Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn): earth signs are independent, logical, and always there for you in a pinch. You’re thoughtful when it comes to making decisions in your love life; you like to be comfortable with the person you love.
- Taurus, you think things through and like to surround yourself with familiarity – but sometimes that means it’s tough for you to break out of your comfort zone. Work on being a little more flexible when it comes to learning more about your partner’s interests – but don’t sacrifice who you are, either.
- Virgos are practical and know EXACTLY what they need in a relationship, and aren’t afraid to voice this in a relationship. Due to your self-sufficiency, it can be hard to be vulnerable and allow people into your life. Try to build trust with your partner sooner rather than later to avoid separating before the relationship turns serious.
- Capricorn qualities include ambition and extreme independence. While this usually leads to excelling in the workplace, sometimes your partner can feel excluded. Work on creating a healthy work-life balance so your significant other doesn’t have to fight for your attention.
- Air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius): personally, I’m a Gemini, and I know all too well how hard it is for me to make a definitive decision. Air signs, although they excel at communication, are so in tune with their emotions that it can create an air of indecisiveness.
- Fellow Geminis, we have to use our social instincts and expressiveness to our advantage – when struggling to make a decision, phone-a-friend (or in this case, your partner) to help talk you through it to avoid frustration AND having that dreaded “What do you want to eat” argument less frequently.
- Libras know that everyone is envious of your confidence and compassion for others, and this makes it easy for you to show affection and gratitude to your significant other, creating a balanced relationship. Sometimes this can backfire, though; you struggle with commitment and sometimes this can give your partner the idea that you’re more invested than you actually are. It’s okay not to be sure where you’re at in a relationship, just clue your partner in on where you’re standing.
- If you’re an Aquarius, you’re immensely proud of your intelligence and free-spirit, and these traits come in handy during disagreements in your relationship.. Most of the time, you know that you’re right – but remember that sometimes you AREN’T. The necessity to be right can sometimes come off as controlling to your partner, so have them participate in the problem solving too for you both to process through the issue.
- Finally, we have the water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces). For water signs, your emotion and vulnerability benefit building trust and improving your comfort level when it comes to relationships. The main obstacle for you is your anxiety of how your PARTNER feels.
- Cancer: you’re loyal, protective and are true romantics at heart. You could spend an infinite amount of time with your significant other; however, your need to live in a fairy tale can create unrealistic expectations and make your partner feel restricted in the relationship. Take quality time for yourself as well as sharing time with your partner – time apart will help you appreciate your partner more, and give them time to be themselves, too.
- Scorpios, you guys are assertive when it comes to what you need out of a relationship – but you struggle with knowing what your partner does. Your insecurity in your ability to read your partner can come off as being guarded, making it hard for people to know if they truly know you. Communication is key!
- Pisces have a sense of creativity and empathy that is unmatched, instilling a deeper need for strong, meaningful connections. In order to dive below the surface when it comes to relationships, you have to be willing to open up to your partner, too. Don’t be afraid to let your guard down after the earlier stages of the relationship – have trust in your partner to fulfill that connection you desire.
Now, I’ll be the first to tell you that I don’t take a lot of stock into my zodiac sign when it comes to my life decisions – but these are all valid, interesting points that could potentially help you power through a rough patch in a relationship.
Do you agree with the assessment of how your sign handles relationships? Let me know below!
XOXO, Alyssa
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