It’s that time of year again! But before you commit to being in someone’s bridal party; how about you make sure you’re up for the task.
Time Questions
How many engagement parties do I need to go to?
Do I have to go to the rehearsal?
Am I expected to go to a shower? How many showers am I expected to attend?
How many bachelor / bachelorette parties are you hoping to have?
Do I have to take time off for this?
Financial Questions:
Am I expected to pay for the shower?
How many times am I expected to fly? Can I afford the airfare?
How much am I expected to spend on a tuxedo or dress?
How much is this going to cost me total?
CAN I AFFORD THIS?
Friendship Evaluation Questions:
Will this person still be my friend after the wedding? Will they still be a part of my life after they get married?
If they do disappear after they get married, does that bother me?
Would I ask the bride or groom to be in my wedding party?
Would they jump through the same hoops for me that I am going to go through for them?
Emotional Questions:
Which bridesmaid or groomsman will I have to stand next to?
Do I have to spend a lot of time with an ex?
Are you going to be a drama queen when planning the wedding?
Do I really have input on the dress? If it makes me want to cry will you pick another one?
Questions To Ask Yourself:
After asking all of the above questions ask yourself:
Will the bride and groom keep their expectations under control?
Is the bride going to be a bridezilla who might hurt my feelings?
Can I live up to what the bride and groom want from their wedding party?
Can I afford this financially?
Can I afford this emotionally?
Do any of the above answers bother me?
Do I want to do this?
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