Got Advice?

We'll talk about this Playhouse Mailbag situation TUESDAY on the show -- any thoughts? Email playhouse@y94.com
I'm in my first relationship where I have to do most of the pursuing, and I don't like it (even though I thought it would be a welcome change from being pursued, as I have been in past relationships). Where does one draw the line between showing interest and being a pest? I find that I do at least 75 percent of the reaching out, which my boyfriend seems fine with, but part of me feels like if he really liked me, he'd be reciprocating in kind! *Ashley